This is a true conversation between me and my husband;
Me: Hey, will you get a belly picture for me? We need to document this pregnancy a little better.
Derrick: Stand right there.
Me: Just make me look cute ok.
Derrick: Well, there is only so much I can do with this camera.
...
Thanks hon.
(don't worry... no harm done. We both got a good laugh out of that once he realized how it sounded.)
So here's a little pregnancy update. 33 weeks.
And I end up having to take my own belly pictures (even standing on the kids step stool) because Derrick's goal is to make my belly look as big as possible no matter how unflattering it is. And as you can see, I'm carrying really low. (and it hurts.)
This has been a good pregnancy. Much easier than the last two. I'm just... getting to the end. This is when I stop wanting to cook dinner or really move at all. And the kids are major rugrats because they know I can't really move so they run away when they are in trouble.
You'll remember when I was pregnant with Halle and I had SPD. It gets worse with each pregnancy. I've been seeing a chiropractor which helps some, but I really am not kidding when I say walking is difficult and I wake up in major pain every morning. I can feel my round ligaments stretching, which is such a strange/painful sensation. I know it's not going to go away. And that's ok. It's just another something I have to endure for a bit. This talk ( The Atonement Covers All Pain) makes me feel better. And I have been blessed. My nausea was very mild this time which pretty much makes up for everything else.
So the countdown is on. 7ish weeks.
Things I'm looking forward to:
meeting the little guy who has been invading my space
cuddling a sweet new baby
tiny baby noises
nursing (that's right, I said it!)
a peaceful birth in a place where I feel safe (more on this later)
sleeping on my tummy
goodbye heartburn
chasing my kids again
fluffy soft diapers
A few hours alone with the baby a couple times a week while big brother and sister are in preschool
feeling normal
Common questions:
Do we have a name picked out?
No. Well, I do, but we sort of have to agree on one. This might be a situation where we have to see him first (to convince Derrick that I really do know his name.)
How do I feel?
I feel pregnant.
(And I feel paranoid because I always get asked this at this point, and I think it's just a way of asking if I feel as horrible as I look.)
10 comments:
I hate it when people ask me how I feel right now! I'm convinced they only ask if I am obviously not "fine"...in which case, why are you asking?? Ugh. Can you tell I don't like that question either?
My one question is does the name you like start with H?
hahaha this post makes me laugh. I love your picture story. That is so something Karl would do. Actually when I was pregnant I had been talking about how I could feel my hips spreading apart and one time he was walking up the stairs behind me and stops to say "wow hun, your hips do look bigger!" Yeah, I didn't talk to him for a few days :) I can't wait to hear what name you come up with.
No, it's not an H name! In fact I veto any H names. :D
I laughed out loud when I read your conversation at the beginning. Mostly because it is a conversation I can see Jared and I having. :)
You look so cute. Really Erin. I know you don't feel it. Sorry that you are hurting so much by the way.
I loved your countdown wish.
Hey...have you tried swimming? Maybe getting in the water and letting your belly float will relieve some pressure. :)
Kevin and I had nearly an identical conversation when I asked him to take a picture when I was pregnant with Emily. I carried Emily lower than I did Lucas and it was really hard on my back, so I feel some of your pain.
You look so cute! Rob says stuff like that to me all the time. I just have to keep telling myself he doesn't get it :) Sorry you're not feeling great; I've had round ligament pain too and I've already gotten pretty achy most days, and I still have three more months! Good luck!
You look cute Erin. :) I'm sorry you are in pain. That comment by Derek totally made me laugh. That doesn't sound like something he'd say.
And as for that talk - FAVORITE FAVORITE FAVORITE talk from General Conference this last time. I've read it/listened to it at least a dozen times. It's really helped me through all I've been going through (and still am).
Good luck soon!
Erin, You are a super cute pregnant lady!!
you look adorable!!! This post made me laugh. I can't believe in 7 weeks you will be holding your sweet little baby. I really miss you Erin.
Oh Derrick! How funny that he said that. You look DANG good! And I'm not just saying that to make you feel better. I hope that you can have just ONE good day this week free of pain.
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