I love that he still makes trains out of everything. It's his favorite way to play with toys. This day, he lined up all his toys to watch a movie with him. Notice the pajamas. He pretty much refuses to wear much else, and he's changing into different pairs all day. We'll have to start working on his fashion sense, but at least he's easy to please.
He was running around really fast one day, and he said to me, "Look mommy! I'm fasting!"
At dinner one night, I asked him if he wanted more. "No, that's enough." It was the first time he used the word enough, and it made both of us smile. I wonder how many times he had to hear the word to understand what it meant. I certainly couldn't explain its meaning very well to a 2 year old. His new word this week is "and," which he uses to tie all of his sentences together. It's pretty funny the things he says, just so he can keep using that word. We were playing a game tonight where I would whisper something that we bought at the store in his ear, and he would tell Derrick. I whispered, "Mayonnaise" in his ear, and he said, "Pannies!" It sounded just like he said panties and it made us all laugh so hard.
As Derrick was putting up a shelf in Hayden's room one day, Hayden just had to be right there helping. I had to run and grab the camera when I noticed that they were matching buddies. He just wants to be like his daddy. He even helped him figure out the instructions. :)
The night of the big snowstorm. It was really cold, so Halle didn't go out. Hayden had to go play while Derrick was shoveling the driveway. He could live in that stuff. Of course, he wouldn't listen to me and had to come inside after he ran on the slick driveway and fell and his his head. He was ok after some hot chocolate.
I got Halle's hair to fit in pigtails! I think it might be the cutest thing I have ever seen. Paired with her adorable smile and it will convince anyone to give her anything she wants (like she doesn't already get it.)
The pigtails were too much. I couldn't stop touching them or staring at them or kissing her cheeks. I had to put ribbons in. (so hard to tie tiny little bows in the tiny thin hair of an active litte girl) I love it. I even had dreams about them.
Don't let her fool you. She quite often looks like this:
Especially at meal times. Ok, sidetrack, but I feel so lost in this little problem. I cannot get this girl to eat a thing! I try really to make my family healthy meals and to teach my kids to like vegetables. It's important to me that they know how to eat healthy, starting now. I don't just say not to treats and snacks, but I explain to my kids that we need to fill our bodies with healthy food before we but fun things in because that's how you take care of them. Halle will eat graham crackers and nutri-grain bars. That's it. Every night at dinner she spends most of the meal screaming, and I'm not exaggerating. She won't touch a bit of food that I put on her plate and I have tried everything. It's like she just doesn't want it because I'm giving it to her. She won't even try most things unless they look like treats. The sad part is that she is so hungry. She walks around all day signing more and wanting crackers. I can't decide what to do. So far I've been just putting the food in front of her. I make the healthy meals. I provide the food. She chooses whether or not to eat it. But she chooses not to. (even smoothies!) So is it better to do what I'm doing and not give in, or should I just give her graham crackers because having that in her tummy is better than nothing at all? I mostly just don't want it to become a power struggle and have her grow up with issues with food. I have no idea what the best solution is.
Hayden gets it though. At dinner one night we had some soup with lots of vegetables in it and I asked him if he liked it. He loved it. I told him that was great because it was so healthy for his body. He said, "Jesus loves soup, huh! Jesus loves soup and sandwich and Jesus loves juice!"
Here's another Hayden-ism. Derrick had to shovel the driveway (again) and the kids were watching from our bedroom window. Hayden was yelling, "Hear me, Dad? Hear me?" So I knocked on the window to let him know we were watching. He threw snowballs on the window which made them laugh hysterically. (Bless that man for taking the time to play with his kids always - even when he's working and in a hurry to get to work.) Anyway, he got back to shoveling, but apparently Hayden wasn't done being entertained. He kept pointing at window and yelling, "Right here, Dad! Make my funny right here!"
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Thats a hard one Erin!! I don't know what I would do either- On one hand you want her to eat only the things that are good for her, but eating something it better than nothing. My little boy is pretty picky, like Halle and honestly it has turned into a power struggle. Mostly between my hubby and Kelt. So, for breakfast and lunch I honestly let him have whatever he wants and then I give him some healthy food too. He will usually at least try some of what i got him. But as far as dinner goes he eats what we eat. I am not the healthiest cook, but I try most of the time. Kelton would rather have chicken nuggets, toast, and cereal for every meal. And some days when i don't want to fight him on it I do just give in and say at least he is eating something. I also know that Kelt goes through stages where he won't eat and then all of the sudden he eats ALL day long. Maybe you just need to find a healthier option that Halle will eat (maybe some crackers from the healthfood store or something) and give that to her. I really don't know, if you figure it out let me know! My kids all opposite of yours, my boy is the picky eater and my little girl LOVES healthy stuff and eats everything!!!
Addie is suddenly starting to be a hard one with eating too...I dont know!
I cant get over how big the kids look in the pics! Weird to hear that Hayden is talking so much...guess he will always be a 'baby' to me :)...and WOW Halle looks SOOO much like you! So cute!
That's so fun. I love the snowball story. Derrick is a good daddy. And I love all the haydenisms and Halle's pig tails SO CUTE!!!
They are so cute. I love Halle's pig tails! I'm sad that Halle is giving you such a hard time. I am not a parent, so I have no real input from experiences. But, two things- Hayden understands it, and obey's, maybe once Halle can see it she will want to mimic him? Maybe not. Maybe she's not that old yet? Something I remember from my childhood. I was a really picky eater, still am, but I can remember only eating Kraft Singles sandwiches with the crusts cut off. I know it was frustrating for my mom, but she always kept putting the other food in front of me, and once I figured out that she wasn't going to stop lovingly putting the good food in front of me, I started to eat it. I'm sure I was older than Halle, but kids are smart, as I'm sure you already know. I say don't back down, but don't try to win either. Mother's are always good at silently being there for their kids to fall back on. Does that make sense? Like I said, I have no idea how to raise children...
Hayden is adorable. I laughed out loud. I am sorry to hear about Halle's eating habits. I really don't know what I would do. Owen was a terrible eater but he did like veggies and stuff...just not the fattening stuff. I just kept up without giving in and he is still a lean eater but he is not as picky as most kids. But if Halle acts hungry...I don't know what I would do really. Owen didn't eat much but didn't show signs of caring or being hungry. I know whatever decision you decide will be the right one!
I have been thinking of you and that felt garland. I finished my other project and have some felt left over so I am going to make one too!...just in time huh?
This was such a fun post to read! your kids are adorable Erin. I loved the pigtail pictures. :)
As for food... SIGH! That's so hard. And I'm sorry. :( I'd say this (but again, this is just me). Offer her the healthy choices (like you are doing) at every meal. But if she really won't eat it, then you've got to cave and feed her something (at least I think). THEN when she gets closer to 2 you will be able to reason with her. I always say to Claire "you have to try it, and if you really don't like it then you can eat the other stuff." She is so good about trying things now, but Halle is too young to understand that yet.
Linus was pretty picky for a while, but not as bad as Halle I think. So, I just kept offering him good choices for every meal, but I didn't force it. He really lived off of crackers and cereal and fruit. But lately he has been trying more things.
That's all the advice I have - just keep offering the food and it will get better. She'll get to a reasoning age too and that always helps.
I'm so sorry!
Lately all Spencer wants for Breakfast, Lunch and Dinner is Mac and Cheese. I let him eat it, I figure that we I am not starving him. I always put other food in front of him to and sometimes he will eat it. I have notice that when my friend is watching him he will eat anything she puts in front of him, if he doesn't like it she won't let him spit it out. I tried that tonight and he actually ate half of a piece of chicken, 3 big scoops of green beans, potatoes and a bite of a roll. And then about and hour after he ate all of that he wanted Mac and Cheese so I made him some and he ate quite a bit of it. I know that it is different with every kid, Spencer has always been pretty picky, just keep trying, she will come around.
how fun! I love that Derek throw a snowball. And i LOVE Halle's hair in the tails. soooooo cute.
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